just kidding, its still broken
The issue has been solved, delete the config and start again, the server will set itself back up!
For whatever reason I can't load into my forge server, it was working before but now none of my previous versions are working!
aether_legacy- 1.12.2 - v3baubles-1.12.2 - 1.5.2BiomesOPlenty-1.12.2-220.127.116.119-universalbuildcraft-7.99.17FamiliarFauna-1.12.2-1.0.10Industrial-Craft-2-Mod-Experimental-1.12.1jei_1.12.2-18.104.22.168Mantle-Mod-1.12.2Thaumcraft-Mod-1.12.2Tinkers-Construct-Mod-1.12.2Twilight-Forest-Mod-1.12.2
I did try to install TConstruct-1.12.2-22.214.171.124 and conarm-1.12.2-1.0.2 but it didn't work. so I went back to the old version of tinkers. Could it be that I have to different versions of tinkers construct hidden somewhere?